Introduction
ABBA’s Björn Ulvaeus Finally Confirms the Awful Truth
The video explores the painful reality behind the breakup of ABBA’s Björn Ulvaeus and Agnetha Fältskog, once admired as one of music’s most iconic couples. Their divorce not only ended their marriage but also cast a shadow over ABBA’s success, leading to emotional struggles that shaped their music—most notably the legendary single The Winner Takes It All.
According to Björn, the song emerged directly from his conflicted feelings during the divorce. Although he initially denied that it was autobiographical, the raw emotions in Agnetha’s performance made many believe otherwise. Writing the song was an outlet for him, but for Agnetha, singing it was deeply painful, as it echoed the very reality they were living through.
The cracks in their marriage had appeared long before their split. Agnetha was described as deeply anxious and possessive, suffering from night terrors and fears that eroded their bond. Björn, in turn, grew distant and controlling, eventually drifting away emotionally and possibly seeking fulfillment outside the marriage. Their personal tensions also began to affect ABBA’s music and public image.
After the divorce, their lives took very different paths. Agnetha struggled with fame, single motherhood, failed relationships, and devastating personal losses—including her mother’s suicide and her father’s death. These challenges worsened her mental health, leaving her reclusive and isolated. Björn, meanwhile, found stability and happiness in his second marriage with Lena Källersjö, building a healthier personal and professional life.
The video concludes by questioning Björn’s claim that “there was no winner or loser” in the divorce, suggesting that, in reality, one partner seemed to move forward with greater ease while the other continued to carry the weight of emotional scars.