Introduction
Benny Andersson has broken his silence about the true nature of his relationship with fellow ABBA member Anni-Frid “Frida” Lyngstad, revealing a much darker and more painful side of their story than fans ever knew.
Although ABBA was celebrated for its music and image, behind the scenes, Frida’s relationship with Benny was fraught with tension, betrayal, and emotional fallout. Their once-powerful romantic and musical partnership deteriorated due to creative differences and Benny’s infidelity, leading to a bitter breakup.
Frida also struggled with her relationship with Agnetha Fältskog, ABBA’s other female singer. Despite public claims of friendship, there was undeniable rivalry, with Frida feeling overshadowed by Agnetha’s public image and voice.
Beyond ABBA, Frida’s personal life was marked by deep tragedy. She was born in post-WWII Norway as the child of a German soldier—a background that led to rejection and shame. Later in life, her marriage to a German prince brought wealth but also control and emotional restriction. Then in 1998, Frida’s daughter died in a car accident, a loss that devastated her and led to years of isolation.
Benny’s recent comments have sparked a re-evaluation of Frida’s legacy—not just as a pop icon, but as a woman who endured immense personal pain behind the fame. Her story, once hidden behind ABBA’s glitz, now emerges as one of strength, loss, and survival.