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Shania Twain’s “Husband Swap”: A Story of Betrayal, Resilience, and Unexpected Love
This video recounts the highly personal and publicly devastating experience of Shania Twain’s divorce from her first husband, Robert “Mutt” Lange, who had an affair with her best friend and assistant, Marie-Anne Thiébaud. Twain describes betrayal as “devastating” and “harder to take” than heartbreak itself, comparing the shock to losing her parents and initially fearing she had lost her voice forever.
The Unthinkable Betrayal
Shania met Mutt Lange in the early 1990s after he heard her debut album and offered to produce and co-write songs for her. Their professional relationship quickly turned romantic, leading to marriage and a son. While living in Switzerland, they hired Marie-Anne as their assistant. Marie-Anne was married to Frédéric Thiébaud, a Swiss executive, and the two families became very close.
However, the unthinkable happened when Mutt suddenly asked Shania for a divorce in the summer of 2008 without a clear reason. Shania confided in Marie-Anne, who comforted her and denied any wrongdoing, even as she was secretly having an affair with Mutt. The truth was uncovered by Frédéric Thiébaud, who found suspicious hotel receipts, phone bills, and lingerie in his wife’s suitcase. He then contacted Shania, revealing the affair.
The Aftermath and a Painful Confession
Shania was shocked and tried to confront Marie-Anne, who continued to deny the affair and then changed her phone number. Shania then sent her a heartbreaking letter expressing her profound pain and betrayal, stating, “I am so low, so brokenhearted I can’t take it anymore… I just want peace.” She revealed that the stress of the situation was so immense that she was diagnosed with dysphonia, a condition that severely affected her voice, leaving her unable to sing. She equated losing Mutt to a “death,” but her responsibility as a mother kept her going.
An Unexpected Turn: Love from Betrayal
In the aftermath, Shania Twain found comfort and support in Frédéric Thiébaud, who was going through the same pain. They slowly became close friends, leaning on each other to cope with the emotional turmoil. Shania was deeply impressed by how Frédéric handled the scandal, leading her to fall in love with him. They began officially dating in 2009, got engaged in December 2010, and married on New Year’s Day 2011 in Puerto Rico.
Forgiveness, Understanding, and Moving Forward
Shania has since embarked on a journey of forgiveness, acknowledging that “accidents happen, we’re all human and we all make mistakes.” While she has forgiven Mutt and Marie-Anne, she emphasizes that forgiveness for her isn’t about forgetting, but about understanding. She believes it was Mutt’s mistake, not hers, and she doesn’t carry that weight.
As of 2023, Mutt Lange and Marie-Anne Thiébaud are reportedly still together and co-parent well with Shania, primarily communicating via text. Shania describes the turn of events as “twisted but beautifully twisted,” affirming her continued happiness with Frédéric. Her story serves as a testament to resilience, finding unexpected love, and the power of forgiveness in the face of profound betrayal.